I have had to take steps here that I never wanted to take ... the possible banning of Tripp Park Proud ... it is my opinion that he has been abusive to a few of our members in particular Paul and Girl Thursday. For what reason I do not know.
I have to say that his posts over at DD from what I can see are pretty much stand alone posts, by that I mean that there really have not been very many responses to his posts (the topics that he has started anyway). He seem to be suffering from the same thing that Joe Pilchesky has, Narcisism, he needs to be validated .... well anyway look for yourself ... the information given on this disorder comes from the Mayo Clinic ... you tell me that I'm wrong and I will apologize to both Joe Pilchesky and JohnBulwer ....
Take a look:
Narcissism Narcissism is the personality trait that features an exaggerated sense of the person's own importance and abilities..
Pathological narcissism The other end of the continuum — narcissistic personality disorder — is a persistent inability to establish a realistic, stable self-image, therefore creating an overdependence on others to regulate their self-esteem. This unrealistic self-image affects how people with this disorder behave and interact with others.
Signs and symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder may include:
Grandiose sense of one's own abilities or achievements
Fantasies about having exceptional power, attractiveness or success
Sense of belonging to an exclusive group of people who truly understand each other
Need for constant praise
Expectations of special treatment
Exploitation of other people
Lack of empathy for other people
Envy of other people or a belief that you are the subject of other people's envy
Haughty or arrogant behaviors
Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder may come across as conceited or snobbish. They often monopolize conversation.They may belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior.When they don't receive the special treatment to which they feel entitled, they may become very impatient or angry.
People with narcissistic personality disorder tend to seek out individuals whom they perceive as equal to their own self-image or to whom they attribute the same special talents and qualities they see in themselves. They may insist on having "the best" of everything — car, athletic club or social circles.
Their personal relationships and interactions are driven by the need for admiration and praise. Consequently, people with narcissistic personality disorder value others primarily according to how well those individuals affirm their unrealistic self-image. This limited value of others usually means that people with the disorder aren't interested in or aren't capable of perceiving the feelings or needs of others. They may take advantage of other people to make themselves look as good as they imagine.
On the other hand, seeking admiration also makes people with narcissistic personality disorder vulnerable to criticism. If someone criticizes an individual's contribution to a project at work, for example, he or she will perceive this comment as an assault on an image that needs to be protected at all costs and may respond with feelings of shame, humiliation or sadness or may express rage, disdain or defensive behaviors.
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I want everyone to stop and think about one thing ... Joe Pilchesky is not a lawyer ... he's just a guy playing a lawyer on the internet. Please don't trust your legal needs to this man.
As I posted over there in defense of you and this site, TPP is, in fact, a man without a home. No one there responds to his posts and they surely will laugh at him for managing to get banned from here.
Getting banned from DD.com is like a badge of honor on this site. geting banned fom here makes you an army of one - never happened before- will probably never happen again.
Welcome to toolville TPP. You have no home, no friends, no comrads, no ability to spark interest.
You're a malcontent who no one finds interesting.
There's one thing everyone here has in common; we all got banned at DD.com with style and flair. You got banned from here for giggling in the choir on Sunday. That makes you a boring idiot.
IHavehadenoughofhaters wrote: Looks like the loser got banned over there also, so I guess it's a shut-out.
I was looking for his post this morning to see if he had any replys ... couldn't find it ... I guess they have a problem with this guy also ... I did notice that they pretty much ignore him over there ... so it's us he calls the DD wannbee ... I think he's a DD or PD wannabee .... he just wants to feel important.
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I want everyone to stop and think about one thing ... Joe Pilchesky is not a lawyer ... he's just a guy playing a lawyer on the internet. Please don't trust your legal needs to this man.
Well, I'm feeling honored - unless the big guy across the hall has deleted or edited Bulwer's posts, I've received an honorable mention over there . Thanks Tank.
p.s. - I think Tripp's got a hot nut for me just because I didn't fall for his line of $hit from the very beginning - and then called him on it.
::: edited to add ::: well, damn it all to hell and back - we've been deleted Aren't all the edits and corrections that Joe is making considered an infringement of free speech? If I make a post and intentionally misspell and/or type like a monkey would, and Joe as the administrator, corrects it or changes it from it's original context, isn't that an infringement of my choices?
I mean, some post were edited here, but only for font size - the original context always remains. How can Joe get in there and change topic titles and gramatical errors and re-arrange sentences? Is he so concerned about his posters sounding ridiculous? Or is he just concerned that all the posts agree with what he has to say?
-- Edited by His Girl Thursday at 09:57, 2007-02-27