I would love to do the same. Unfortunately, I cannot. This is due to the fact that a few weeks ago, at the "reconsideration conference" that I did not attend because my attorney told me it was unnecessary, she agreed that I would not share my case with the public any longer and an Order was issued for the same.
So are you saying that Melanie Naro misinformed you? And, are you also saying that nothing of your case can be shared with the public? Would you be so kind as to post the court order?
I would love to do the same. Unfortunately, I cannot. This is due to the fact that a few weeks ago, at the "reconsideration conference" that I did not attend because my attorney told me it was unnecessary, she agreed that I would not share my case with the public any longer and an Order was issued for the same.
So are you saying that Melanie Naro misinformed you? And, are you also saying that nothing of your case can be shared with the public? Would you be so kind as to post the court order?
Thanks.
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This case has been mishandled, manipulated and mastrubated from day one through a string of lawyers either unable to drop an iron fist on the defendant's table or complicit with the "other side". It's too compromising for a local lawyer to do that and it's frustrating to see it happen.
Nonetheless, there has been forward movement, but small steps and too far apart. Consider that at the end of the day, the judge is the one wearing the black robe. 99% of the time he/she has their mind made up due to what facts are already on the record or one side or the other has more political influence than the other.
Alex Tarapchak is a man on a mission to do all he can to disable a relationship between his children and their mother. Just in the last week, he refused to provide the children to two scheduled visitations. And what will Judge Corbett do about that? Absolutely nothing.
Danielle Ross is still the guardian in this matter, notwithstanding the fact that she has conducted herself recklessly, irresponsibly and with the incompetence expected of a paid-off crony whore. That's what she is and nothing more. Her presence in this case has been toxic to the best interests of the children for more than our years, yet Judge Corbett does nothing to eliminate her from the dynamic of efficient closure to the issues. Ross refuses to recuse herself, even though she's named in a lawsuit.
It's Lackawanna County, where right doesn't matter, just who can afford the price of wrong. It all heads toward that waterfalls that none of them can predict. But, they never could, could they?
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I would love to do the same. Unfortunately, I cannot. This is due to the fact that a few weeks ago, at the "reconsideration conference" that I did not attend because my attorney told me it was unnecessary, she agreed that I would not share my case with the public any longer and an Order was issued for the same.
So are you saying that Melanie Naro misinformed you? And, are you also saying that nothing of your case can be shared with the public? Would you be so kind as to post the court order?
Thanks.
Joanne, I do believe that if I posted the Order, I would be in Contempt. However, I think that you can obtain it and if you choose, post the Order as the case is not sealed.
During last week's protest rumor had it that two agents from the FBI spent the entire day before inside of Lackawanna County Court's Information Technology Department. Hopefully we will all be hearing more from them in the days to come.
Also Joanne, have you tried to access the online LC public records? I got as far as being able to access all the cases listed but not the actual documents involving them. Perhaps you will have better luck than I if you try due to your advanced IT training and knowledge.
Also Joanne, have you tried to access the online LC public records? I got as far as being able to access all the cases listed but not the actual documents involving them. Perhaps you will have better luck than I if you try due to your advanced IT training and knowledge.
And Joe can't post the order? Why should I have to do the provenance of claims that you've made?
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Educate and inform the whole mass of the people... They are the only sure reliance for the preservation of our liberty. - Thomas Jefferson
Also Joanne, have you tried to access the online LC public records? I got as far as being able to access all the cases listed but not the actual documents involving them. Perhaps you will have better luck than I if you try due to your advanced IT training and knowledge.
And Joe can't post the order? Why should I have to do the provenance of claims that you've made?
You asked me to post it, I said I couldn't. I simply gave you a suggestion on how you could obtain the Order. Joe cannot talk publically about my case either, THAT is why Joe cannot post the Order.
Please then explain to us why Joe continues to discuss the case. An example of Joe's recent discussion of your case:
Alex Tarapchak is a man on a mission to do all he can to disable a relationship between his children and their mother. Just in the last week, he refused to provide the children to two scheduled visitations. And what will Judge Corbett do about that? Absolutely nothing.
This is due to the fact that a few weeks ago, at the "reconsideration conference" that I did not attend because my attorney told me it was unnecessary, she agreed that I would not share my case with the public any longer and an Order was issued for the same.
Please be advised that I have worked long and hard on making this site a credible source of truthful information. I have put my life at risk in many ways for it, my future has suffered because of that effort, and I face jail time because of it. If I am incarcerated, my son, a minor, will have lost for about 18 months, his only living parent.
I will not allow all the other parents interested in this discussion (both male and female) to be disrespected by a game of 'now you see it, now you don't.' You can't have it both ways here. If you are going to criticize the court publicly relating to the managment or mismanagement of your custody issues, you can't then hide behind an excuse of a court order when asked to prove what you are stating. It seems like you are playing cat and mouse with the court.
In addition, you should be aware that any public discussion about specific representation provided to you by an attorney is considered a release of attorney/client privilege.
It's interesting that you initiated discussion about your reconsideration conference and then when questioned about it, you waived the white flag of the court order as an excuse to not continue to discuss it.
I assure you that your personal issues and custody case are not of particular concern to me because you are not the only one suffering. Joe can tell you about my custody litigation, if you want to hear horror stories. I am more interested in the integrity of this forum, and the truthfulness, accuracy and validity of the information posted.
When someone makes an ambiguous statement about the court, or their ex-spouses, without names, that's one thing. But when someone makes specific claims about specific individuals, i.e., ex-spouses, attorney's, or even what transpired in a courtroom, that person has embarked upon a journey that is regulated by entirely different rules and expectations.
Most likely this will be my last post as I'm sure Joe will ban my participation now.
By the way, after reviewing several prior pages of this thread, it is my view that Joe has not removed certain posts, which posts in my view, do not serve the best interests of the children. But, hey, they're your kids, and it's not for me to decide what you want them to read or know.
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Educate and inform the whole mass of the people... They are the only sure reliance for the preservation of our liberty. - Thomas Jefferson
It's been publicly stated that Judge Corbett sealed the file in the best interests of the children. That doesn't mean the file is put into a safe and locked up. It means the Clerk's Office cannot distribute documents in the file, regardless of what they are. Fact that the attorneys for both sides get copies of pleadings and any attendant orders doesn't mean they're free to publish them. Should they do so, they would be in direct contempt of a court order and subject to sanctions, which can be harsh and include paying attorney's fees and suffering a loss of visitation, to say nothing of losing the court's trust.
Regarding Naro, she is situated as any attorney would be when opposing counsel represents a wealthy client who has acquired substantial political influence in the court system. It's slippery slope and all uphill. Naro knows how this system works. She's been in it for 16 years now. She knows that she cannot walk into a courtroom to get a glass full of justice, even when it's warranted by the facts, when she also knows going in that the court offers a shot glass full of justice at a time for the disadvantaged/prejudiced party.
It's extremely difficult water to navigate without all parties involved being frustrated with the formula in play involving an influential opponent. When there are many contentious issues, it's not unreasonable for there to be communication lapses in a spontaneous fashion.
I've argued many, many cases as the severely prejudiced party, especially as a non-lawyer. I've won most of my wars in Harrisburg on appeal, but those were not custody cases. They were all decoaratory judgment/election/public trust cases, so time meant nothing to me. It's best in Family Court for the prejudiced party to patiently win a shot glass full at a time, and over time, than to fight for the full glass in Harrisburg that will take up to one year, if not longer.
The challenge here is that patience runs thin, because a shot glass full of justice at a time hardly quenches one's thirst to see their children. The children equally suffer with such small doses, but when one parent, such as Mr. Tarapchak in this case, is clearly maliciously adamant to make mother and children suffer disconnection to his pleasure, and the court supports that imposition absent sanctions or remedy, then suffering is the name of the game until the day comes when a sixth shot glass of justice is the quantity that would have filled the glass and the suffering ends.
Recognizing and respecting the power of an opponent is the first step towards defeating him - a shot glass full of justice at a time if necessary.
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Joe Pilchesky wrote:but when one parent, such as Mr. Tarapchak in this case, is clearly maliciously adamant to make mother and children suffer disconnection to his pleasure, and the court supports that imposition absent sanctions or remedy,
That's actually not entirely true, Joe.
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The case is NOT sealed. I am not allowed to share it with "the public," i.e., on this site. Joe decided that in the best interest of the children, he would not post anything disparaging about their father. The kids did NOT want him to remove any of the posts.
I believe the old saying goes..."Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"...Do what you gotta do Joanne, Papa "Baldilox" is a real f'n P.O.S.!!!...Jimbu15...
The case is NOT sealed. I am not allowed to share it with "the public," i.e., on this site. Joe decided that in the best interest of the children, he would not post anything disparaging about their father. The kids did NOT want him to remove any of the posts.
Those are the facts.
According to the information I was privileged to, it WAS sealed. I know Atty.Campolieto asked for it to be sealed. I believed it was GRANTED. If that changed I offer my apology. I posted in error.
I did appear in front of Judge Corbett personally in court at theh last custody conference, and on the record, to state that I would not further make disparaging comments about Mr. Tarapchak as an offering of good faith. Judge Corbett just wants very badly for everyone to get along. I also again agreed to remove the content that was already posted here that was disparaging to Mr. Tarapchak, also in good faith. I was half way through removing that content when Mr. Tarapchak refused to surrender the kids to a planned visitation, an act of bad faith. Then, he did it two more times, so all bets are off courtesy of how Mr. Tarapchak elected to proceed in bad faith.
There is nothing anyone can do, besides the good judge, to force Mr. Tarapchak to act in the best interests of his own kids. It's his business how happy he wants them to be. After all, they are his kids, not mine. If I wore the black robe, he's be screwed, that I can assure you. But, I do not, so I must at this time take myself out of the equation as having exhausted my input and let the parties appeal to the wisdom of the Honorable Judge Corbett for relief. I'll make no further comments about Mr. Tarapchak one way or the other, but the posts already up stay up. I wish the Tarapchak family well in its endeavor for peace.
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Joe Pilchesky wrote:but when one parent, such as Mr. Tarapchak in this case, is clearly maliciously adamant to make mother and children suffer disconnection to his pleasure, and the court supports that imposition absent sanctions or remedy,
That's actually not entirely true, Joe.
Why don't you take a long walk off a short pier?
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I do not think I am, nor is it or was it ever my intention to be "running victory laps all over her site."
I also do not agree with you that I have EVER treated Joanne disrespectfully in anyway, EVER.
Please go back and read the posts from earlier today.
HOWEVER, that is NOT to say that her recent actions (of which Joe has not shared) do not warrant disrespect.
Joe deserves a GREAT deal of respect for allowing her to continue to post and for not telling her to do alot more than taking a long walk off a short peir.
Do not pass judgement until you know all the facts.
I WONDER HOW YOU WOULD REACT IF YOUR ESTRANGED WIFE WHO LEFT YOU TWENTY MONTHS AGO CAME INTO YOUR HOME AND STOLE YOUR COMPUTER? THE COMPUTER THAT IS ESSENTIAL TO BEING ABLE TO CONDUCT AND MANAGE THE VARIOUS BUSINESSES THAT YOU NEED TO RUN ON A DAILY BASIS?
Joe admited that the house and everything in it belonged to Joanne and that that is the way he wanted it because if someone came out with a lawsuit against him then they couldn't take anything away ... so how did Joanne steal her own property??? Just wondering.
And why is Joe in the residence ... I thought when the taxes were no paid on the home that he was very adament that it was not his house ... it was Joanne's ... I think we have the posts to back that up ... Joe is an ******* .... who caused all of the grief in Joanne's life ... I have no doubt in my mind that it was him that got her to steal from her dying/dead estranged father's estate.
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I want everyone to stop and think about one thing ... Joe Pilchesky is not a lawyer ... he's just a guy playing a lawyer on the internet. Please don't trust your legal needs to this man.